Traits of a Traitor

Isn't it just absolutely lovely to have someone befriend you just to use you for something that you have that they need?
This, folks, is what is called a not-so-loyal-person. The sad part is that sometimes, people don't see that they were just being used and so they make the same mistakes over and over again. 
How does it feel to fall in love with someone you thought was in love with you, only to find out that they just wanted to get into your pants?

This world has many flaws. One of them is the people who just use others for their own advantages. It's a dangerous game played by a sneaky fox. All we need to do is to know how to play along and win it, or how to avoid these types of people for the sake of your safety and happiness.

1. Keep your lips sealed tight after just meeting someone you don't know very well yet. Many people tend to spill out their whole life story to an acquaintance that they're sitting next to on a bus, just to "make conversation". In other words, choose what you say and preserve yourself at a first meeting with someone.
2. Don't fall for everything so easily. Know when someone is actually telling the truth or not. Now this can get pretty hard, there are many deceivers in this world who say they are someone they're not. The best thing to do, in my opinion of course, is to learn from sources. Are they a mutual friend? Ask others about your new "friend" and see what he's like when he's not around you. If not a mutual friend, then learn and slowly find out yourself what he's really like. During the process of the friendship you're forming, find out his strengths or weaknesses. His favorite food, movie, music and etc. This way, you really grow to trust them and know who you're dealing with.
3. Show them who you are. There could be people who try to make you fall in love with them just so they could be the first one to get to your pants. But like in many movies and books, the guy somehow starts to unintentionally fall for the girl just by actually getting to know her true self. So, be comfortably you!
4. It's their loss, not yours. In the end, if they somehow still get what they want from you without actually caring about you, just remember that small mistakes like these can make you even stronger. In the future, they'll see you grow and be even better than before. Make them feel bad that they only used you.